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“Our biggest fear is taking the risk to be alive”

Don Miguel Ruiz

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Randy Pausch Last Lecture: Achieving Your Childhood Dreams

Note:  This is well worth your time and effort to watch all of this..  This man is incredible….

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Before I (Neil) begin, let me start off with this disclaimer:  My intention is not to criticize my fellow healers or trainers, as they all have a great purpose and I believe that most people need these services to evolve. The esoteric services help us see things in a way that our mundane self does not. So, I am all for them and the work they do. It serves our higher purpose and dreams.

However, I do have an issue I would like to share with you. So here goes. I am going to tell it straight up — these are my thoughts

Currently BestUCanB most of us can’t teleport or translocate so that leaves us with the daunting task, if we want to get from Point A to Point B, of putting some kind of physical energy into our transportation to get us between the two points.

(e.g. We need to walk, ride, drive or fly to get between the two points)

This concept is the very same for our dreams — we still need to put energy (effort) into achieving our dreams. There is NO success without the energy of action.

What I have observed is that a great number of people have become so focused strictly on the esoteric aspects of their personal growth (eg. My chakras are clear. The divination card I drew today says it will be a good day. It is a “3” year, so it’s a year of change.) that they have slowed down, or stopped completely, focusing their energy on the basics, much to the detriment of actually fulfilling their life dreams and goals.

“There are two great days in a person’s life–the day we are born and the day we discover why.” – William Barclay

So, my request or dream for you is that you take your esoteric tools / gifts along with you and journey back to the basics.

Why do I say this? Because in my month away with Tina, I have had a lot of time to ponder (contemplate / evaluate / muse) about my life and life in general.

I have come to realize a number of personal observations:

When people are stuck in a rut, they don’t know what to do next. The words of my pee wee hockey coach came to me. When you don’t know what to do, go back to the basics:

·        keep your head up

·        keep your stick on the ice

·        keep skating

and things will happen.

When I remembered this, I started to eat healthier, get more daily exercise and I recently went back to the beginning of my personal growth teachings and reviewed some of the most profound lessons I have heard. I listened to Don Miguel Ruiz’s Audio book The Four Agreements.

I found this to be very powerful for me, as it took me back to the very basics (keep your head up, stick on the ice and keep on skating) and it helped bring me clarity on many things in my life and how I was showing up.

I thought if it served me to go back to these basic lessons, maybe it would serve you, too. So, we would like to share The Four Agreements with you. We invite you to listen to them.  If you have already listened or read the book, we ask you to listen to it again; this time with NEW or fresh ears… 

We trust you will find it very powerful…

Four Agreements Part 1

Four Agreements part 2

Finally our wish for you is to DREAM BIG. Dream bigger than you have ever dreamed before in your life…   Don’t let the realist into your head. Make your dreams audaciously huge!

Going back to the basics will help clear the space so that you can dream big and move forward with your dreams/goals.

We (I) highly encourgae you to listen to The Four Agreements.


In Light and Love,

Tina and Neil Thrussell
and the entire Best U Can B Team


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